In case you didn’t know, May is Masturbation Month and
in honor of this most excellent celebration, we decided to run a contest to
find the best euphemisms for one of our favorite pastimes. This led me down a
path of self-discovery.
I love masturbation as a pastime. It’s free, it’s safe and it’s the one thing in your life where you have total say over when you want it, where you want it, how you want it, and how long you want to do it.
Wikipedia defines masturbation as the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals. That could mean that you are stimulating yourself by yourself or you could be stimulating yourself while being intimate with someone else. There is an art to stimulating yourself and many people become highly skilled at it. Your partner can learn a lot about you from watching you master your craft.
Pleasuring oneself by oneself used to be considered the height of taboo and in some cultures this is still a serious no-no but that doesn’t seem to stop so many people from enjoying themselves…literally. When I decided to write on this topic, I Googled it to get a deeper understanding of where we are on the subject. It was interesting to see that religious sites opining a variety of thoughts on masturbation popped up frequently. Many with healthier views than I would have imagined. There were also a slew of sites advocating the practice for health and pleasure. Mainstream publications such as Men’s Health Magazine, routinely discuss the topic in positive ways, yet, there remains a strong puritanical stance against the idea of masturbation and these publications are often criticized for their content. With all of this information at our fingertips, why do we still giggle like sixth graders at the phrase Jerkin’ the Gherkin?
We find the need to create euphemisms and expressions for masturbation in order to even mention this strongly tabooed subject. These euphemisms have been finding their way into pop culture for decades. Take The Sex Pistols’ ‘Friggin’ in the Riggin’ for example, the song’s title is a nod to a sailor’s self-delight and it includes another slang phrase commonly used in the U.K., ‘wanking in the planking’. Those raucous young lads were edgy. Euphemisms like these are still in use today because the topic still makes us generally uncomfortable. This is why we came up with the Masturbation May contest. We hope to help reduce the stigma associated with masturbation.
Why the taboo? For one, religious thought has historically been that masturbation goes against God’s plan for procreation. That any spilled seed is wasted when the act of masturbation is performed. And it was also commonly thought that masturbation was highly addictive. Therefore, if masturbation was not ‘nipped in the bud’ so to speak, then it could create all sorts of problems. If the masses were too busy pleasuring themselves then they couldn’t become highly-functioning citizens contributing to the greater good.
Let’s face it, if it feels good, then, why not? The stigma of masturbation seems to be inching its way towards greater acceptance in this culture. But, while a majority of men have no problems with it, it is still considered a tough subject for some. Maybe they got caught in the act at a young age which resulted in fear and anxiety. Some prefer to do it only in private, some with their partners, but make no mistake, everyone does it.
Discussing and encouraging self-pleasure can be daunting for some, while other couples are completely open and honest about their masturbation habits. As always, communication is the key for any healthy sexual relationship. Your partner may have different needs than you do in this arena and it is healthy to talk about it. Masturbating is an important part of life and there are many benefits. When couples have been together for a long time, it can manage the libido differences between partners.
For those not in a relationship or those who prefer to stay celibate, it is a natural expression of self-love and a healthy outlet for fantasies. Orgasms have been shown to reduce stress, decrease depression and certainly help avoid STIs. For men, orgasms may even prevent prostate cancer! All single people out there should be reaping the benefits of orgasms!
OK, in case you still want to giggle like a sixth grader…some of the phrases submitted to our Masturbation May contest included: Spank the monkey, Hit the clit, I’m off to give the kitty some overdue attention, I’m going downstairs to stroke my ego, Buff the banana and Burp the worm. And make no mistake, this is not a purely American thing. Many other countries have their own euphemisms. The French say “Tirer la pipe” which translates to pull the pipe, Mexican’s say, “Me fui a mi casa con Manuel”, I went home with Manuel (my hand), and I love the German “Fünf gegen einen”, five against one. Suffice it to say, they all mean the same thing… “I’m off to… Master my Domain.”
Feel free to Google Masturbation for yourself and start your own self-discovery. Let’s see if we can get the topic trending and really give it the attention it deserves.
I love masturbation as a pastime. It’s free, it’s safe and it’s the one thing in your life where you have total say over when you want it, where you want it, how you want it, and how long you want to do it.
Wikipedia defines masturbation as the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals. That could mean that you are stimulating yourself by yourself or you could be stimulating yourself while being intimate with someone else. There is an art to stimulating yourself and many people become highly skilled at it. Your partner can learn a lot about you from watching you master your craft.
Pleasuring oneself by oneself used to be considered the height of taboo and in some cultures this is still a serious no-no but that doesn’t seem to stop so many people from enjoying themselves…literally. When I decided to write on this topic, I Googled it to get a deeper understanding of where we are on the subject. It was interesting to see that religious sites opining a variety of thoughts on masturbation popped up frequently. Many with healthier views than I would have imagined. There were also a slew of sites advocating the practice for health and pleasure. Mainstream publications such as Men’s Health Magazine, routinely discuss the topic in positive ways, yet, there remains a strong puritanical stance against the idea of masturbation and these publications are often criticized for their content. With all of this information at our fingertips, why do we still giggle like sixth graders at the phrase Jerkin’ the Gherkin?
We find the need to create euphemisms and expressions for masturbation in order to even mention this strongly tabooed subject. These euphemisms have been finding their way into pop culture for decades. Take The Sex Pistols’ ‘Friggin’ in the Riggin’ for example, the song’s title is a nod to a sailor’s self-delight and it includes another slang phrase commonly used in the U.K., ‘wanking in the planking’. Those raucous young lads were edgy. Euphemisms like these are still in use today because the topic still makes us generally uncomfortable. This is why we came up with the Masturbation May contest. We hope to help reduce the stigma associated with masturbation.
Why the taboo? For one, religious thought has historically been that masturbation goes against God’s plan for procreation. That any spilled seed is wasted when the act of masturbation is performed. And it was also commonly thought that masturbation was highly addictive. Therefore, if masturbation was not ‘nipped in the bud’ so to speak, then it could create all sorts of problems. If the masses were too busy pleasuring themselves then they couldn’t become highly-functioning citizens contributing to the greater good.
Let’s face it, if it feels good, then, why not? The stigma of masturbation seems to be inching its way towards greater acceptance in this culture. But, while a majority of men have no problems with it, it is still considered a tough subject for some. Maybe they got caught in the act at a young age which resulted in fear and anxiety. Some prefer to do it only in private, some with their partners, but make no mistake, everyone does it.
Discussing and encouraging self-pleasure can be daunting for some, while other couples are completely open and honest about their masturbation habits. As always, communication is the key for any healthy sexual relationship. Your partner may have different needs than you do in this arena and it is healthy to talk about it. Masturbating is an important part of life and there are many benefits. When couples have been together for a long time, it can manage the libido differences between partners.
For those not in a relationship or those who prefer to stay celibate, it is a natural expression of self-love and a healthy outlet for fantasies. Orgasms have been shown to reduce stress, decrease depression and certainly help avoid STIs. For men, orgasms may even prevent prostate cancer! All single people out there should be reaping the benefits of orgasms!
OK, in case you still want to giggle like a sixth grader…some of the phrases submitted to our Masturbation May contest included: Spank the monkey, Hit the clit, I’m off to give the kitty some overdue attention, I’m going downstairs to stroke my ego, Buff the banana and Burp the worm. And make no mistake, this is not a purely American thing. Many other countries have their own euphemisms. The French say “Tirer la pipe” which translates to pull the pipe, Mexican’s say, “Me fui a mi casa con Manuel”, I went home with Manuel (my hand), and I love the German “Fünf gegen einen”, five against one. Suffice it to say, they all mean the same thing… “I’m off to… Master my Domain.”
Feel free to Google Masturbation for yourself and start your own self-discovery. Let’s see if we can get the topic trending and really give it the attention it deserves.
Carry on…and #LubeYourTube. Twitter @Wetplatinumman
